THE REAL RULES FOR GIRLS is published by GIRL PRESS, which states that it “is dedicated to creating books for girls that will make them strong, self-reliant, and ready for life’s adventures.”  That in itself is the description of this book.  Written by Mindy Morgenstern, the tone is conversational and funny.  The book covers a variety of topics in short, mostly one-page anecdotes for teenage girls.  The book is split into six sections: Romance, Work, Social Life, Family, Money, and Life Tips.  Each section holds one-liners and their descriptions as they relate to “girl power.”

In the Romance section, readers will find an excerpt entitled, “You should always be driving, even from the backseat.”  All of the pages include at least one quote from a famous woman that also relates to the “girl power” theme.  Here, the quote from Mamie Van Doren is, “It is possible that blondes prefer gentlemen.”  Here Morgenstern talks about pressure and how girls need to be the one to decide when the time is right for anything in a relationship.  In the Work section readers will find tips on how to ask for a raise, and how to do what they love.  They are also let in on the fact that yes, there will be “sucky” jobs along the way to your dream job.  The Social Life section talks about keeping friends through thick, thin, and men.  It also talks about overcoming anxiousness in a place (like a party) where you may not know anyone.  This might be especially helpful for girls about to go off to college on their own.

In the Family section, Morgenstern assures readers that, “Everyone’s family is as freaky as yours,” which can be very reassuring to an adolescent girl who feels like she is all alone in her family issues.  The Money section encourages girls to “Keep your own purse.”  Morgenstern points out that the old days are over, and no matter what your situation, it’s best to keep your own finances.  Sound advice for the times we live in.  In the Life Tips section, Morgenstern lets girls know that “Everyone gets bummed out,” but is quick to point out the difference between that and depression.  She also takes this time to tell girls to “Stop obsessing about your weight.”  This is an issue that is particularly sensitive for teenage girls and though being told may not solve the problem, the attempt is made.

The tone and style of the book, not to mention the foreword by Courtney Cox Arquette, make THE REAL RULES FOR GIRLS one of the rare books of this genre that teenage girls may actually read.  Her message is positive, not preachy.  The subjects are kept short, and the layout is dynamic enough to never be boring.